Popular Nigerian influencer Idris Okuneye, widely known as Bobrisky, has made a notable return to social media with a pointed message directed at fellow content creator Oluwaseun Adebisi Adeyemi, alias Mummy Dollarz. The advice, delivered via TikTok, centers on the intense public scrutiny surrounding Mummy Dollarz's engagement to a younger man.
Bobrisky's Viral Message of Support
In a video that marked her end of a social media hiatus, Bobrisky urged Mummy Dollarz to stop defending her relationship choices to online critics. The core of her message was a call for the engaged woman to prioritize her own happiness over public opinion.
Bobrisky dismissed the backlash focused on the age difference in the romance, firmly stating that love is not restricted by age and that choosing a partner is not a criminal act. She encapsulated her viewpoint with a popular Pidgin English phrase: "Na husband you collect, you no kpai person," which translates to "You took a husband, you didn't kill anyone."
Expressing bewilderment at why Mummy Dollarz felt compelled to answer her detractors, Bobrisky questioned the need to respond to accusations, particularly from a woman who claimed her partner was taken. She philosophically added that if a spouse is not properly cared for, someone else might step in.
Background of the Controversial Engagement
Bobrisky's counsel comes after weeks of intense online debate. In January 2025, Mummy Dollarz, who is the mother of comedian Oluwadolarz, announced her engagement to a younger man. The revelation immediately sparked widespread discussions and trolling across social media platforms, with critics focusing on the age gap and levelling allegations of home-wrecking.
Videos from the proposal, including one showing a passionate kiss, circulated widely, drawing mixed reactions from the Nigerian online community. The ensuing cyberbullying was so severe that Mummy Dollarz briefly left social media before returning to confirm and stand by her relationship.
Bobrisky, a prominent and often controversial transgender figure who has faced her own share of public criticism, appeared to draw from personal experience to encourage Mummy Dollarz to live freely and ignore the noise.
Nigerian Netizens React to the Advice
The TikTok video triggered a flood of mixed reactions from social media users, highlighting the divisive nature of the topic. Comments ranged from supportive to highly critical of both parties involved.
One user, @OluwakoredeO, reacted with sarcasm, writing: "Mommy Dollar, come forward. Your daughter wants to talk to you. Ehh. When did this old man started calling himself a girl?" Another, @Abis_bg4l, commented humorously: "This lady (He) na werey I miss her (his) Wahala like mad on Snapchat."
However, some found wisdom in Bobrisky's words. User @mmimi_ah opined: "Dropping pearls of wisdom. I love it here." Meanwhile, @Ms.Lade reacted with: "Even Bob shame on mummy dollarz behalf."
Rounding off her advice, Bobrisky encouraged Mummy Dollarz to cease justifying her life choices and to concentrate on her joy. In her final words, she stated: "Love is blind; you can love anybody. There’s no age to happiness, keep having fun."
