Nigerian Man Cancels First Date After Lady Asks for Money to Buy New Dress
A Nigerian man has sparked widespread discussion online after sharing a detailed account of why he cancelled a first date at the last minute. The man, identified on social media as @sir_lux_, posted about his experience, which quickly went viral and drew numerous reactions from users.
Unexpected Turn of Events Before the Date
According to the man, both parties had agreed to meet for a date at 6 p.m. and had been communicating smoothly throughout the day without any apparent issues. However, just 30 minutes before the scheduled time, the woman sent him a message explaining that the dress she intended to wear had a broken zip, leaving her frustrated.
In response, the man suggested she simply choose another outfit from her wardrobe so they could proceed with their plans as agreed. After about 10 minutes, the woman sent another message, this time asking if he could send her money to buy a new dress from a boutique.
This request was the final straw for the man, leading him to cancel the date immediately. He shared the conversation on X, writing: "Date cancelled ? We both agreed to go on a date today by 6pm. We spoke in the morning and afternoon. 30 minutes to date time, She texted that the cloth she wanted to wear, the zip just got spoiled and she is frustrated about it. I suggested she change to another dress, look for another dress on her wardrobe. After like 10 minutes, she texted me and asked 'if I can send her some money to buy a new dress at the boutique'. I still never reply?"
Social Media Reactions to the Incident
The post garnered significant attention, with many users applauding the man for his decision. Comments ranged from accusations of scamming to humorous takes on the situation.
- @Laxavision commented: "Classic scam, she pretended to want to go on a date with you till the last minute to make you believe, she created a last minute problem about a dress so you can hurry up and send money You were smart to refuse because she was literally gonna block you and buy food.?"
- @theonlybigbasz wrote: "Lmao ?. Poor man, how much is a 250k dress that you cannot send?"
- @Adeplenty01 stated: "Be like babe wey we made plans, said she didn’t have dress and shoe to wear, budget 50k+. I just ghost am."
- @ErnestRhykensei added: "Like how na? Which kain format be this one? You can come naked na wetin she for hear for my mouth be that because me and her nor suppose jam for this life again."
This incident highlights broader conversations about dating etiquette and financial expectations in modern relationships, particularly in the context of online interactions and first meetings.
