A Nigerian man has sparked fresh debate online after strongly criticising a recent apology video from popular Lagos-based pastor, Chris Okafor, describing it as manipulative and lacking genuine remorse.
Apology Follows Explosive Allegations
The controversy stems from public accusations made by Nollywood actress, Doris Ogala. She claimed the cleric of the Mountain of Liberation and Miracle Ministry had a lengthy secret affair with her before ultimately marrying another woman. Following the viral spread of these allegations, Pastor Okafor released a video message on December 28, 2025, addressing his congregation and tendering an apology.
In the clip, the pastor offered explanations for his actions, which included referencing personal marital struggles. However, his choice of words and the tone of the message failed to convince many viewers, who took to social media to question its sincerity.
"He Should Own Up His Shit" - X User's Blunt Critique
One particularly vocal critic on the X platform, identified as @bissiriyu, dissected the apology, arguing it was a strategic move rather than an act of contrition. The user asserted that the pastor's primary goal was to emotionally manipulate his church members to prevent them from leaving his ministry.
"He was only out to guilt-trip his church members not to abandon him and his church," the user wrote. "So because he saw his wife having sex with another man, it affected his own behaviour that he had to also have sex carelessly outside? Does this even make sense? He should own up his shit without manipulating anyone."
The critique highlights a central point of contention: whether the apology accepted full responsibility or instead crafted a narrative to elicit sympathy and justify the alleged misconduct.
Mixed Public Reactions Flood Social Media
The unfolding drama has drawn a flood of comments from Nigerians online, revealing sharply divided opinions.
Some, like user Joy Osi, pointed to a perceived gender bias in how such scandals are handled. "Let’s assume it’s a female pastor going through all this... her church would be empty by now. But it’s a man, yea, it’s ok for him," she commented.
Others adopted a more forgiving stance. User Adaji appealed for mercy, stating, "He that is without sin should cast the first stone. Yes he is a pastor but he is mortal and can fall to the temptations of the flesh."
Meanwhile, criticism also focused on the perceived exploitation of scripture. User Ggg remarked, "Why are 9ja people... foolish to see what’s wrong... you shouldn’t be doing all this and still manipulate people with a scripture from the Bible."
The scandal continues to unfold, placing the pastor's conduct and the church's response under intense public scrutiny. It raises broader questions about accountability, gender dynamics within religious institutions, and the expectations placed on spiritual leaders in Nigeria.
