Media personality Ruky has publicly criticized fashion designer Veekee James for the timing of her baby announcement, which came as many were grieving the death of Nollywood actor Alexx Ekubo.
Veekee James, who had been abroad for several months, welcomed her baby girl on May 2 but chose to share the news online days later, coinciding with the mourning period following Ekubo's passing. Ruky took to X (formerly Twitter) to express her disapproval, accusing the designer of lacking emotional intelligence, empathy, and the ability to read the room.
Ruky's Criticism
In her post, Ruky claimed there was no difference between Veekee James and Blessing CEO, describing both as attention seekers. She suggested that the fashion designer was dragging the spotlight with the dead, which she deemed insensitive.
Divided Reactions
The comment sparked a heated debate among fans. Some supported Ruky, arguing that Veekee James could have waited longer given the circumstances. Others defended the designer, stating that she had already kept the news private for weeks and had the right to share her joy regardless of external events.
- @rielaestheticessence said: "Sentiment aside, if you think about it carefully, you will realise that she is not far from the truth."
- @distinct_me commented: "God gives, and God takes- The sky is big enough for us to celebrate the life given and mourn the life taken. Jesus wept."
- @iye.360 added: "She is right tho.....some of you can't read the room."
- @iammissportable wrote: "Only the living celebrate. May the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen."
However, others criticized the backlash as unnecessary bullying. @nekkyrose remarked: "Omg this is the bullying everyone is talking about!!! Let people be, smh." @teeclean1015 questioned: "She gave birth again? 2nd of May, right… what happened to waiting for another 2/3days to announce it… at least she's been keeping it… It came to my mind, but I decided to shut up."
Previous Controversy
This is not the first time Veekee James has faced public scrutiny. Previously, a lady slammed the designer over her social media displays of affection with her husband, questioning whether the man was her social media manager or spouse, and advising her to let him maintain his dignity.
The debate highlights the ongoing tension between personal celebration and collective mourning in the age of social media.
