A video capturing the moment former Nigerian President Olusegun Obasanjo was greeted by two of the nation's foremost traditional rulers has set social media ablaze, sparking intense debate over protocol, respect, and cultural etiquette.
Contrasting Gestures at a Public Event
The clip, which began trending on Tuesday, January 16, 2026, shows the arrival of the 88-year-old former head of state at a function where the Ooni of Ife, Oba Adeyeye Enitan Ogunwusi Ojaja II, and the Alaafin of Oyo, Oba Abimbola Akeem Owoade, were already seated. The core of the controversy lies in the monarchs' differing responses.
As Obasanjo approached the Ooni of Ife and made to bow and shake hands, the revered monarch stood up to receive the greeting, reciprocating the gesture of respect. In a stark contrast, the Alaafin of Oyo remained seated, extending his hand for the former president to lean in and shake.
Social Media Erupts with Mixed Reactions
The video, shared by the account @peckhamgloballogistics2, was accompanied by a caption that framed the discussion: "Position does not cancel respect. Authority does not erase manners. True leadership... understands when to stand, when to bow, and when to show restraint."
This sentiment divided netizens. Many praised the Ooni's display of humility, with user @adetutudignity noting, "Na Baba Obasanjo dey even tell Oni to sit down (E joko)... Humility at its peak." Others, like @olowuolawalejoseph, simply labeled the "Alaafin, the proud king." Critics questioned the Alaafin's demeanor, with @gods_grace_constructions commenting, "That alaafin too get pride," while supporters defended his action as upholding the dignity of his ancient stool.
Broader Context of Royal Protocols and Recent Snubs
The viral moment gains added significance against recent reports concerning the Alaafin of Oyo. The monarch has been in the news for allegedly being sidelined at several high-profile events. Notable incidents include the Olubadan of Ibadanland, Oba Rashidi Ladoja, declining a handshake from him at an interfaith gathering, and Ondo State Governor Lucky Aiyedatiwa reportedly bypassing him while greeting others.
This episode has thrust into the spotlight the nuanced and often unwritten rules governing interactions between Nigeria's political and traditional elite. It has prompted a national conversation on whether age, political stature, or traditional hierarchy should dictate etiquette in such public forums.
The debate continues online, with Nigerians passionately dissecting the layers of meaning behind a simple greeting, proving that in the intersection of culture and power, every gesture tells a story.
