Nollywood actress Omobolarinde Akinyanju, widely known as Ashabi Simple, has shared a deeply emotional post on Instagram, detailing her personal struggles and taking aim at the father of her children, controversial singer Habeeb Olalomi Badmus, popularly called Portable.
Ashabi Simple's Heartfelt Confession Ahead of Her 30th Birthday
The mother of two, who is preparing to turn 30, posted photos from a movie set that she said mirrored the chaos of her life in her late twenties. In the post published on January 9, 2026, she expressed that while life tried to make her "look like a mad woman," her faith in God remained her anchor. She lamented that the internet has become a space where people judge her without understanding her reality.
Portable Labeled a Narcissist and Manipulator
Ashabi did not hold back when discussing her relationship with the "Zazoo Zeh" crooner. She described Portable in stark terms, labeling him a narcissist, a liar, and a manipulator. She revealed that she wakes up daily strategizing on how to manage him due to his jealousy and anger issues.
The actress made a serious allegation, claiming that the singer views her as a competitor and actively tries to stifle her growth. She acknowledged the complexity of their situation, rooted in the fact that they share children, which makes leaving a difficult consideration. Ashabi confessed to being trapped between the fear of things worsening if she stays and the thought of her children if she goes.
Fans Flood Instagram with Supportive Messages
The raw post resonated with many of her followers, who flooded the comments section with words of encouragement and prayer. Fans expressed their sympathy and offered spiritual support, urging her to stay strong.
Some of the notable reactions included:
- @oyewusizainab who wrote: "It is well dear, may Almighty Allah come through 4 u nd see u through dis phase."
- @runny_kay who reacted: "Chai, D lord is your strength my woman, I believe you, you can do it again."
- @duchesshamza who stated: "The lord will see you through hold on to him he is the only true one you need at the moment you will be fine."
This public airing of grievances comes amid ongoing online friction between Ashabi Simple and Portable. The tension escalated recently over claims the singer made regarding Ashabi's alleged actions toward his wife, Bewaji. This latest post marks a significant and personal escalation in their very public conflict, offering a rare glimpse into the emotional toll their relationship has taken on the aspiring actress.
