Afrobeats singer Oxlade has issued a raw and emotional appeal to his fans and inner circle, urging them to prioritise their mental well-being and stay alive. The singer, whose real name is Ikuforiji Olaitan Abdulrahman, took to social media to share his distress after receiving tragic news, which is believed to be related to the death of popular influencer Lazywrita.
A Heartfelt Message from the Heart
On Tuesday, December 31, 2024, Oxlade turned to X (formerly Twitter) to speak directly to those struggling with overwhelming emotions. In a poignant post, the singer acknowledged the heavy burden of emotional pain that many silently carry. He stressed that survival hinges on staying alive long enough to tell one's story, warning that taking one's own life only inflicts deeper wounds on loved ones.
"Hey there, I know things can be overwhelmingly tough… some of you might have been bottling it in for so long," Oxlade wrote. His message was a clear call to break the stigma surrounding mental health struggles and to encourage open conversations before it is too late.
Fans React with Personal Stories
The singer's post resonated deeply, triggering a flood of reactions from social media users who shared their own battles. One user, @wayup0001, commented on the constant struggle with suicidal thoughts, highlighting how basic needs like food can become a lifeline. Another, @kifahsT, expressed nightly fears for a brother facing a prolonged difficult situation since August.
The responses painted a vivid picture of widespread emotional distress:
- @Davebiggy219 shared frustrations about working hard with little to show for it.
- @Ashabi__Ade critiqued the focus on the feelings of others rather than those actually experiencing depression.
- @Paulinu08732772 questioned the sincerity of online advice when practical support is lacking.
Broader Context: A Crusade Against Stigma
Oxlade's public plea positions him as a champion in the crusade against mental health stigma in Nigeria. By using his platform, he aims to shift the narrative, urging those in pain to seek help rather than suffer in silence. This incident follows recent controversy surrounding the singer, as gospel artist Tim Godfrey faced backlash for collaborating with him on the track 'Infinity,' referencing Oxlade's past scandals.
The singer's emotional outreach underscores a critical and growing conversation about mental health, particularly within the high-pressure world of entertainment and among young Nigerians navigating economic and social challenges.
